Storytelling for Leaders

    Storytelling is a powerful communication tool that marketing and advertising professionals use very skillfully to promote their companies’ products or services. But did you know that stories are also effective as a leadership tool?

    For example, Nike employees have heard for years that their company owes its existence to a track coach and a waffle iron. Workers at Armstrong International know a round of golf once cost their CEO $248,000. And employees at Medtronic are brought to tears when they hear about a man with Parkinson’s disease whose life was transformed by their company’s technology.

    Great leaders know that workers need more than lofty mission statements and industry buzz words. To understand and appreciate what their organization stands for, workers need to hear about its people, its values and its history.

    So smart leaders tell stories. They periodically gather the “tribe” around the corporate campfire (the boardroom, annual meeting, holiday events, etc.) to recall their legends and share new tales. By touching the hearts as well as the minds of their employees, customers, and stakeholders, they leave a legacy of experiences that inspire generations.

     

    Stories Hit Home

    “All you can do is relate the successful experiences you’ve had within the company,” says Jim Sinegal, cofounder, president and CEO of Costco Wholesale. “What else have we got besides stories? That’s what really hits home with people; it’s what brings meaning to the work we do. And when you have real examples, like our success in selling Calvin Klein jeans, that’s what resonates.”

    “A picture is worth a thousand words, and a story told appropriately is priceless,” Sinegal adds. “Telling one of our own stories speaks volumes about our philosophy and our values.”

    As the Costco story and others demonstrate, the companies that last are the ones with visionary leaders who clearly articulate the organization’s values—the bedrock of the corporate culture.

    Storytelling is a proven tool for reinforcing vision and values and communicating the practices and behaviors that lead to success. A consistently well-told corporate legend is the common thread among companies that succeed over time, diverse though their products and services may be.

    Stories help us achieve a myriad communication goals. And because they touch us deeply, they stay with us. Each time we share a story, we expand, deepen and enhance our connections with our families, friends, communities and organizations.

     

    The Need for High Touch

    We need stronger connections today, perhaps more than ever before. Our highly mobile, fast-moving, technology-driven culture gives us instant and continuous access to each other, but we’re often not truly connected. Instead of speaking face-to-face, coworkers in nearby cubicles, next-door neighbors and often even family and friends opt for the greater efficiency of email or instant messages. But these “conveniences” isolate us from one another.

    Telecommuting and home-based businesses add to our isolation because growing numbers of us have no one to interact with. Even in offices filled with people, we are so busy that the daily rituals of our past—sharing a coffee break, chatting at the water cooler, taking a few minutes to greet each other before a meeting—have been lost.

    Joseph Campbell reminds us in The Power of Myth, “When you lose rituals, you lose a sense of civilization; that’s why our society is so out of kilter.”

    As Judy Wicks, founder, president, and maître d’ of Philadelphia’s White Dog Café so eloquently says, “People in our society hunger…to share their values, to enjoy a sense of community, and to be part of something that is larger than themselves.”

     

    Work Teams as Families

    Given our common longing for increased connection, coworkers, managers, and even organizations have become “extended family.” Leaders who regularly use stories create a culture in which people feel connected with other members of the “family,” and that gives their employees’ work purpose.

    When executives and managers share tales about their own career challenges and failures, or relate how the company survived a crisis, overwhelmed employees take hope that they will also be able to tough it out. When leaders tell their teams how others have succeeded in solving difficult problems, employees gain confidence and motivation to carry on.

    An example of someone “caught doing something right” is easy to grasp and easy to apply. And when desired behaviors and individual roles are clear, people work together better and serve customers more effectively.

    Futurist Rolf Jensen predicts, “Companies will thrive on the basis of their stories and myths—on their ability to create products and services that evoke emotion.”

     

    How about your organization? Is it honoring its legends? Are your leaders touching people’s minds and hearts? Are your leaders sharing the stories that will create the future they envision?


    © Evelyn Clark, The Corporate Storyteller, is president of Clark & Company, a marketing communication firm in the Seattle area. A public relations practitioner with more than 20 years experience, she was accredited by the Public Relations Society of America in 1986. Her firm's services include facilitation of retreats and communication workshops, marketing and communication management, media relations strategy development, and media training. http://www.CorpStory.com


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    How to Plan a Program around Mystery Stories

    Several weeks ago I received an e-mail from an elementary school media specialist who was in search of a storyteller who told mysteries. They had planned a “Mystery Week” at one of the schools where she works. She had e-mailed me, not because I was known for telling mysteries, but because I am quite active in the Ohio storytelling community and should know many Ohio tellers and their specialties. I didn’t know of any who told mysteries! And, thinking about the many stories I have heard, I didn’t remember hearing any mysteries.

    But, I did have a solution for her. Because I love a good mystery, and because I was ready for a new storytelling challenge, I told her that I would do it. I was at her school all day telling to K-2, 3-4 and 5-6. It was a huge success. Keep reading if you love mysteries, too, and want to know how I proceeded.

    The first step was learning the ingredients of a good mystery. And most good stories already include many of these. There must be a problem (crime), a perpetrator of the crime (usually, not knowing who or what this is creates the mystery), a motive (reason) for the problem (crime), all the necessary clues for solving the mystery and the resolution (solution).

    The next step was to find the stories to learn and to tell. Most of the mysteries I have read involve murder, and I knew that wouldn’t work for elementary school age children. I also knew that there was a big difference between Kindergarteners through sixth graders and the types of stories that would be fun and challenging for each group.

    A story for all the groups. I have my own and quite popular interpretation of “The Case of the Black Bubblegum” where I involve my own family - my son Chris, especially. The problem and perpetrator is the gum; the motive is that the gum needs my son as a host to stay alive, the clues are that the gum keeps returning to its host; and the solution is that I keep the gum from its host and it finally dies. I decided that this story would work for all ages and it did - it is always a hit!

    I picked stories for K-2 that were easy for them to follow yet held a kind of mystery. First was the little boy who answered the phone while hiding in the closet (a mystery for the caller and his family). Then there was the “Mystery of the Three Dolls” (I changed it from a riddle to a mystery); the “Case of the Empty Pot” (seed did not grow because it had been boiled); and one of the Encyclopedia Brown stories.

    Let me tell you about the Encyclopedia Brown stories by Donald J. Sobol. Leroy Brown (known as “Encyclopedia” because his head is filled with facts) is a fifth grader who has his own Brown Detective Agency, helps his father, the Chief of Police, solve mysteries and catch the criminals. There are many, many books and each is filled with short, interesting challenges for Encyclopedia. The clues - which range from scientific facts to observed behavior - are there, Encyclopedia solves the mystery and the reader is directed to the page that tells “How?” I learned and used several of these for each group. The media specialist was delighted because they have many of the books in their library.

    For the third, fourth, fifth and sixth graders, I had the announcement made that they should bring a paper and pencil with them for making note of clues. I also found that they listened intently throughout - you could have heard a pin drop! The third and fourth graders weren’t as quick with the answers as the fifth and sixth graders, but that was OK because they had thoughtful answers and I would tell them when they were getting close to the solution.

    I also found a great kids’ mystery website at: http://kids.mysterynet.com where two cousins, Nina Chase and Max Decker are the detectives. The clues are all there and you can either solve the mystery or ask for more clues. Again, the fifth and sixth graders were quick with the solutions.

    Two other stories that I used with the older groups were a math problem of sons dividing their deceased father’s herd of camels and the “Wise Judge” that appears in the first book of Ready-To-Tell Tales by David Holt and Bill Mooney. This one stumped the third and fourth graders, but not one quick student in the older group. Note: this is also the book where I found the story of the Three Dolls. It is filled with wonderful, never-fail tales.

    With each group, we followed the telling with time for questions and answers. Of course, everyone wanted to know if the Black Bubblegum story was true, but they also wanted to ask questions about mysteries and storytelling, along with writing stories. There was lots of interaction during the solving of the mysteries and the follow-up sessions.

    I left the school feeling that all the work of learning new stories and spending the whole day telling was well worth it. I not only had a blast, but I now have a new niche and plenty of new stories in my repertoire. My only advice to you is to tackle something like this if you love the genre and be prepared for a challenge - and lots of FUN too!


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    The Recipe for Getting Published

    Got talent but no clips? Here's the recipe for getting published...

     

    * Procrastinating

    When you've finally decided you have to put into writing the fabulous idea that just struck, you enter the first phase of the writing process. "I'll start tomorrow," "I'm not inspired yet" and "I just don't have the time" are some of the phrases that will form a part of your vocabulary. When you've incorporated them into your daily lifestyle, you're ready to enter the second phase.

     

    * The Blank Screen

    You sit in front of your computer, usually without a clue to what you're supposed to be doing. You stare at the blank screen constantly without blinking. You may take short coffee breaks or a walk, but you still make it back to where you started. Type a few lines of crap, then erase. Repeat this process a number of times, and proceed.

     

    * Feeling Guilty

    Now you begin to wonder what kind of a writer you actually are. Your love for writing suddenly disappears and you make futile efforts to convince yourself that this was what you were meant to do. You know you're in this phase when you start considering other job options. When you've finally decided to quit writing, the next phase begins.

     

    * Getting Over it

    You inform your family and friends that won't be writing any more and they do everything in their power to convince you otherwise. Sooner or later, you give in to the pressure and decide to write again. The time taken in this step can vary according to the intensity of your denial and the inability to land another job.

     

    * Writing

    In this stage, you finally manage to prepare your first draft. This may take several days, and in some cases, several years. But after this stage, you'll be back on track and the fears and anxieties of the earlier steps will slowly die out. Pat yourself on the back (if you can) or get somebody else to do it for you.

     

    * Editing and rewriting

    Read and reread your work so many times that you're totally sick of it, as you correct mistakes, improve the style and add important things. Now your writing is almost in its completion stages. But before you start flying again, you might want to come back on earth to complete the remaining steps.

     

    * Showing off

    You show your manuscript or article to your friends, family and neighbors asking for opinions on it. Try not to think about the check you'll be getting while they voice their thoughts. Some of you may want to hire professional help. In that case, opinions from friends and family don't count.

     

    * Submission

    Convinced that you have a winner, you approach the editors or publishers you're planning to submit to. Arm yourself with a good query and convince them to ask you to send in your work.

    Caution: Editors have an uncanny habit of throwing things out the window. So, read the submission guidelines before making any moves!

     

    * Desperately Waiting

    A long process, but can vary depending on the cruelty of the editor. This phase could last from as little as a week, to more than a few months. Try to stay patient, and don't lose your cool. DO NOT send inquiries about your submitted work (at least for the first few weeks).

     

    * Rejection

    If you're new to writing, this stage will almost always have to be dealt with. If you're lucky enough to get accepted right away, you may skip the next step. This stage could lead to excessive drinking and spells of depression. * Repeat Repeat the submission and waiting steps as per requirement.

     

    * Acceptance

    You should be flinging your arms in the air and screaming at the top of your voice. Try not to scare the neighbors though. This stage is marked by a temporary spell of insanity.

     

    * Getting published

    When your work is published and you're carrying your work all over the place to tell people about it, you can be sure you've reached the final stage. This marks the final line. Now just sit back and enjoy!


    Mridu Khullar is the editor-in-chief of www.WritersCrossing.com a free online magazine for writers. Sign up for the free weekly newsletter to get a complimentary e-book with 400+ paying markets. Also check out her e-book, "Knock Their Socks Off! A Freelance Writer's Guide to Query Letters That Sell," available at http://www.writerscrossing.com/queries.html


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    What Makes A Successful Speaker?

    C2004 by Sandra Schrift. All rights reserved

     

    Successful speakers do not necessarily do all the right things all the time. They often take risks and risk bombing. But all highly successful speakers take action, mostly daily, to move toward their goals with lots of course adjustments.

    They connect with their audience quickly; usually in the first sixty seconds. To connect is spiritual. It's the core.

    They speak with E's They educate, entertain, and provide their audience with an interactive experience.

    They speak with influence, not control or to engender guilt. They know that with the privilege of the platform comes the awesome responsibility of motivating and influencing the audience to feel, think, and act differently.

    They get the audience involved through group exercises, role-playing and simple questions and answers. When people interact, they get it better and retain it longer.

    They give the audience the facts laced with a good dose of humor. Adults learn better when they are lightening up! Here's the place for some magic tricks, handwriting analysis, or a song.

    They vary their tone of voice, smile often, and show passion for their subject matter. Their body language reflects their comments.

    They hold themselves accountable for excellence. They help each person in the audience be accountable and live up to his or her potential. They give audiences what they need, not just what they want.

    They are the speaker who motivates the audience to admire and respect them. They know they have succeeded when people say, I want to be like him or her.

    They are supportive of their audience. They believe in them. They say, I did that. And so can you.

    They stand and accept their applause.

    Are you ready to take your business to the next level? Get more clients and consistent monthly income? Judy Cullins, book coach, and Sandra Schrift, speaker coach, invite you to join a "Business Marketing Achievers" small group coaching beginning January 19th. We are looking for 12 committed people who are ready to use speaking and writing to catapult their business. For more details, contact Sandra at 1-800-340-3683 between 9-6pm pst. Hurry! This group will fill quickly.


    Sandra Schrift 13 year speaker bureau owner and now career coach to emerging and veteran public speakers who want to "grow" a profitable speaking business. I also work with business professionals and organizations who want to master their presentations. To find out HOW TO MAKE IT AS A PROFESSIONAL SPEAKER, go to http://www.schrift.com/success_resources.htm Join my free bi-weekly Monday Morning Mindfulness ezine http://www.schrift.com/monday.htm This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.


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    How to Market Your Unsold Books on the Internet: It's Easy

    Judy Cullins ©2004 All Rights Reserved.

     

    Your book expresses your wondrous information, your creativity, and your genius. It's your dream come true. Or is it? You have already tried a few venues--maybe an expo, book signings, press releases, book reviews, distributors, wholesalers, speaking and book tours.

    Now, there is a new way to market those unsold books. Use the Internet. And you don't even have to have your own Web site or spend money.

    Get ready to create a continuous, passive income. Be ready for those checks and charges coming your way often!

     

    What Kind of Books Can I Market?

    Depending on your passion, your willingness to learn a new way, and putting energy into your campaign, you can market any kind of book: how-to, non-fiction, fiction, short special reports, booklets, training manuals, workbooks, poetry, short stories, articles.

     

    Sell your Print Books and Create New eBooks

    If you already have a print book, you can still sell it Online. One way to draw attention to it is to write a short eBook on the same subject. This won't take long.

    Make this eBook around 10-25 pages. You can take the information right from your print book. Just copy and paste information on one topic, perhaps one chapter. Reduce the number of stories to keep it short. Then add a new introduction and conclusion. People on the Net want straight-to-the point information.

    Put your eBook into Word and Portable Document Format. Use your Word file to update and edit and use your PDF file to send your book by email.

     

    Who will Buy?

    You can sell your short eBook for 6.95-$14.95, depending on how much your audience wants it and how well you write your sales copy. You can also give this book away to stimulate your audience to want the whole story--the print book.

    Online audiences read all kinds of books. Many will want the shorter electronic version and be perfectly willing to print it. Others only want a book they can hold and enjoy on their nightstand a long time. They will buy the longer version.

    To publicize your books start writing short articles, anywhere from 400-1200 words on your book's topics. When you submit to online ePublishers, Web masters and ezine owners, each article will be seen by thousands, even hundreds of thousands of online readers. They are hungry for information. That's why they go to the Web.

    To the bottom of the ezine, add a signature file that gives your title, tag line, book title, free offer, phone numbers, and e and Web addresses.

    While your title may impress some, your tag line is far more important. What major benefit do you bring potential buyers? For example, "Helps professionals make money on their books through the Internet." Offer a free report or a free ezine to seal the deal. Not only do more people want to know more about your book, you will have their email address to send further promotions to.

     

    Divide and conquer.

    Use your one book as a springboard for many others and catapult your sales


    Judy Cullins, 20-year Book and Internet Marketing Coach works with small business people who want to make a difference in people's lives, build their credibility and clients, and make a consistent life-long income. Author of 10 eBooks including Write your eBook or Other Short Book Fast, Ten Non-Techie Ways to Market Your Book Online, The Fast and Cheap Way to Explode Your Targeted Web Traffic, and Power Writing for Web Sites That Sell, she offers free help through her 2 monthly ezines, "The BookCoach Says...," "Business Tip of the Month," and blog Q & A at http://www.bookcoaching.com/opt-in.shtml  and over 170 free articles. Email her at This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. .


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    Top Ten Ways To Prepare for Your Online Book Marketing Success

    Still marketing your book through press releases, networking groups, and talks to groups? If these methods have taken a great deal of effort and time and brought you only a few clients or product sales, you may now be ready for your virtual marketing machine, the Internet! To get ready to market your book Online use these ten tips:

     

    1. Buy an up-to-date computer with a 56k modem or more and Internet capability.

     

    2. Open an email account. Bypass the freebies, because you need an email account from which you can send an attachment. You want to look professional. For you email address, don't use confusing letters and numbers. Use your name plus business keyword such as This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it..

    Since dial up connections are so slow, consider getting DSL or cable high-speed Internet. Before you buy, ask about limitations on sending group email (no-spam, of course).

     

    3. Educate yourself about email, the Internet, and your own computer program. Take a community college or adult school computer and Internet program at low cost or free. You'll notice many others like yourself there, eager to learn. More advanced students will help you each step of the way.

     

    4. Hire a one-on-one low-cost computer/internet coach, who can give you individual lessons if you don't want to attend seminars. They can help you proceed successfully with your e-commerce. Call your local high schools, computer schools or colleges for computer-savvy students who will be happy to receive $8-10 an hour.

    Connect with teachers, career centers, or student centers to start the ball rolling. Tell them you want an assistant. Make an ad that lists the capabilities you need. Be sure to follow up because schools are less business oriented and may not call you back.

     

    5. Hire a computer assistant; because you are not only a coach, speaker or author, you are a business! These assistants can make you look like a large business.

    Make them part of your virtual marketing machine at a low cost. Use your assistant as much as you want to expand your success. You will look like a successful professional by adding new part-time staff. Start with 6-9 hours a week, and watch your clients and product sales grow! Your coach is approached by many big businesses wondering how she got to be #1 in Google and 35 other search engines. In December 2004 she is listed on 13,100 Web sites with a URL back to her site. This number increases every week by 500.

     

    6. Offer more than just one product to your potential buyers. Part of the plan is to allow automatic, ongoing sells for your lifetime, either on your Web site or other seller sites. If you plan to write a book, write a short one first. Then, expand as you can. Publishing a short book is savvy business because you start making money right away to fund your other projects. Divide and conquer. Think of chapter excerpts, articles, tips, or how-to lists you can email free to prospective buyers.

    Incorporate your action plan to sell other products that relate to your book. Submit informational pieces to ePublishers and top Web masters so that your word gets out to thousands, even hundreds of thousands of people daily on the net. This untapped eager-to-buy audience awaits your service and product. For more information on this, contact your book and Internet promotion coach.

     

    7. Include your five-to-eight line signature at the end of every email you send. Include your name, email address, Web site address and local and 800 number. Include your business practice, number one benefit, and be sure to offer a free special report or ezine so you can collect those email addresses for future promotions. Include your email and web site hyperlinks to make it easy for your client to click through to where you are selling your products or service. Separate each email's end and signature with graphics such as ==== or #####.

     

    8. Promote your book through writing short articles to submit to opt-in ezines. Use a search engine to find Web site ezines in your category or genre or send directly to the ezines. Your article must be compelling, concise and useful, so take care and edit it until it shines. Most editors and publishers want articles from 500-800 words.

    These people want and need your free information for their ezines web sites. They publish with your Signature Box at the bottom. Web sites publish your URL.

     

    9. Submit your articles to top Web sites to multiply sales. To market your books, boost your Web site popularity to the top ten through the search engines by submitting how-to articles to sites with your category. Top site ezines get from 15,000 to 500,000 readers daily. These sites need your daily content, and they will pay you handsomely by including your key words that help your search engine position. When you submit your articles, the site also includes your URL in a hyperlink straight to your Web site or where ever you sell your products or service. .

     

    10. Create your own inexpensive book Web site. Coaches, speakers, and other small business people can catapult their business with a short print or eBook. While it's possible to sell books on other publishers' or book sellers' sites, you need to eventually develop your own site. Authors without a site are like business people without email. Make your home page sizzle with dazzling ad copy, headlines, and a sales letter. You will sell books and make your coaching practice a household word.

     

    Be willing to do what it takes, such as hire an Internet or book coach, to get Online savvy because this wonderful marketing machine is there for you and your boosted, consistent business success.


    Judy Cullins, 20-year Book and Internet Marketing Coach works with small business people who want to make a difference in people's lives, build their credibility and clients, and make a consistent life-long income. Author of 10 eBooks including Write your eBook or Other Short Book Fast, Ten Non-Techie Ways to Market Your Book Online, The Fast and Cheap Way to Explode Your Targeted Web Traffic, and Power Writing for Web Sites That Sell, she offers free help through her 2 monthly ezines, "The BookCoach Says...," "Business Tip of the Month," and blog Q & A at http://www.bookcoaching.com/opt-in.shtml and over 170 free articles. Email her at This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it..


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    What If I Fall Flat On My Face?

    I hope you do. Sounds awful, I know. But I really think the best thing that can happen to you is for you to take a timid little leap and fall flat on your face. Then, I want to see you get back up, evaluate what you did wrong, and jump again. Keep on taking that leap of faith and learning from each and every mistake until you become used to jumping and used to falling. Then, you'll get over the fear of falling and you'll finally begin to concentrate on flying. I want to see you run with everything you have and dive into your dreams with so much passion and fire that you forget all about the possibility of failing. You will never find your wings until you do.

    The fear of failure is a cruel and stupid trick we pull on ourselves. The fact that the fear of failure stops us from going after our goals and dreams means that we've already failed. I ask you this, who cares if you fail? Brilliant people fail every single day. Brave tenacious people fall flat on their faces and even get laughed at every single day. Here's an example of a perfectly nice person who has been known to fail, Christopher Reeves. How many mornings did he wake up telling himself that he was going to walk and then went to bed having failed yet again. Great guy, people love him. He's not going to let a little thing like yesterday's failure stop him from working hard again today. He's an inspiration to everyone who knows him. Who ever planted that stupid idea in our heads that we had to be successful at every single thing every single day in order to be likeable?

    What is failure anyway? In my eyes, Christopher Reeves is definitely not a failure. Nobody with that much tenacity, focus, and drive is failing. He is a real hero. You haven't failed until you've given up trying. As long as you're still taking leaps of faith, you're still a winner. Failure, like everything else, has its breaking point. At some point, if you hit at it in the same spot over and over again it eventually breaks. How many light bulbs did Thomas Edison make before he got it right? Most people don't know the answer to that because they don't care how many times he failed before he finally succeeded. He kept learning from each attempt, adapting to the knew information, stayed the course, held the dream, and didn't let the fear of failure nor the fear of other people's ridicule stop him.

    One of the reasons that I think we hear so many stories of immigrants coming to this country and making it big is because they were raised on stories of the ability to create whatever kind of life you envision for yourself here. It's like all the stories they grew hearing about how everyone has the right to succeed in America overrides any underlying belief that they themselves could fail. They don't have a fear of failure so they just roll up their sleeves and get to work making their dreams come true. Sure they stumble and fall and learn a few lessons along the way, but they certainly don't give up and quit.

    Afraid of what other people are going to think of you if you fail? Have you ever met someone who played it ultra safe that was very impressive? People who don't take risks are seldom if ever cheered, admired, or in the limelight. Besides, Americans love an underdog. We love to see some scrappy go-getter who has no business thinking they can win. We love to watch that same person stumble and fall a few times only to pick themselves up and really make something of themselves. It's the American Dream. Hollywood knows it. They've made an entire industry of showing us the stories of underdogs who dust themselves off and finally become winners. Nobody pays money to watch a movie about some perfect person who designs a perfect dream and experiences a flawless life while accomplishing everything they set out to do easily and effortlessly. Boooooring! We don't like people who come across as too perfect anyway. So go ahead and fail, it gives us a reason to pay attention to you, to relate to you, to cheer you on.

    One of the best pieces of advice I was ever given on this subject was back in high school when I was first learning how to water-ski. I was told, "If you aren't falling down, then you aren't trying very hard. You're playing it safe, staying in your comfort zone. You aren't getting any better." That pushed me to get past my fear of falling. I beat the heck out of my poor body that summer, but I also made impressive gains in my ability to master the sport. Nobody talked about how many times I fell that summer nor how black and blue I was, they only talked about how fast I was learning and what a great job I was doing. My teacher would sit back with this self-satisfied smirk on his face because only he knew how hard it had been for me to push past that comfort zone to allow myself permission to fall down. Nothing beats taking that big bite out of life and having it bite back just a bit! Laugh it off and dive in again.

    Are you really going to shelve something so dear to your heart because you might fail? If I could promise you that you'd only fail twice and on the third attempt you would succeed, then would you go ahead and suffer through the first two failures in order to get to that third time? Of course, you would. All that's left to debate is how many times. So go ahead... take that first leap of faith.

    Copyright 2004, Skye Thomas, Tomorrow's Edge


    Skye Thomas is the CEO of Tomorrow's Edge, an Internet leader in inspiring leaps of faith. She became a writer in 1999 after twenty years of studying spirituality, metaphysics, astrology, personal growth, motivation, and parenting. Her books and articles have inspired people of all ages and faiths to recommit themselves to the pursuit of happiness. After years of high heels and business clothes, she is currently enjoying working from home in her pajamas. To read more of her articles, sign up to receive her free weekly newsletter, and get free previews of her books go to www.TomorrowsEdge.net. Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/


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    Storytelling - The Great Motivator of People

    In a data-driven world, facts and figures are the order of the day in sales calls, employee meetings, board rooms, and political assemblies. Traditionally, when a person is trying to convince someone else to do something they use the logic of benefits and features - long the sacred domain of anyone in sales.

    What truly moves us as human beings, what prompts us into action, is emotion. Imagination is the conduit of emotion and well-crafted storytelling carries the imagination.

    Consider this story: You place your hand on top of your head, only to feel the sun radiate from your scalp. Sweat trickles down your back and the once ironed shirt clings to your sides. The pavement roasts your feet even through your thick-soled shoes. You've been walking for a 45 minutes, trying to find the office where you are scheduled to make a sales call. Suddenly, a swoosh of cold air swirls at your side as a young couple comes charging out of an ice cream parlor, licking swirls of raspberry and vanilla perched in a sugar cone…

    I'll bet you're ready for some ice cream!

    What engaged you was the reliving of a common experience. I didn't need to itemize the benefits of cooling off or list the features of ice cream and this particular store. You were drawn in by your imagination. Facts tell. Emotion sells. You imagined how you would win over the odds of heat by taking a break for ice cream.

    We follow leaders who capture us by stories that draw us in and give us purpose for being part of the company. We buy products when we see or read of the human experience with that product. (Remember the Maytag Man?) And we accept the call to action if we hear a compelling story about triumph over odds. Think about the solicitation letters you get from non-profits. They are often stories of individuals who suffered greatly until the non-profit's "product" allowed them to regain a semblance of their life.

    In short, crafting compelling, honest stories that resonant core values in action is a skill worth learning by any leader, manager, sales executive, or parent.

    In his best-selling book Story: Substance, Structure, Style, and the Principles of Screenwriting, Robert McKee, the world's best-known and most respected screenwriting lecturer, argues that stories "fulfill a profound human need to grasp the patterns of living-not merely as an intellectual exercise, but within a very personal, emotional experience." Or as USC leadership guru Dr. Warren Bennis states, "Man cannot live without story any more than he can live without bread."

    What's the point you want to make at your next meeting? Is there a story that can be crafted to that point-not a sermon to be intoned?

    Who has used your product and reported a wonderful story that came as a result of that product? Or did you even say, "Tell me a story…"

    What stories are told in the coffee room about what it is like to work where you are? What contribution could you make to this story that could improve the ending?

    What future do you want? Create a story about it.

    Remember, people are not inspired to act by reason alone. The heart holds hands with the head.

     

    © 2003 by Eileen McDargh. All rights reserved


    Eileen McDargh is an author, radio commentator, organizational development consultant, acclaimed international speaker, and retreat facilitator. Eileen is the author of four books and is a frequent contributor to numerous business journals. Visit her web site www.eileenmcdargh.com or contact her toll free at 877-477-4718; This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

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    Hire a Proofreader

    Do not try to proof your own work. You are too close to the manuscript and will miss some typographical errors. You need a professional with fresh eyes to proof your work.

    Proof Communications writes, copy edits and proofreads successful tenders, proposals and awards submissions; we write interesting thought leadership, blogs and case studies; and we proofread annual reports, sustainability reports, RAPs, PDSs and IPO documents for companies worldwide.

    Your computer’s spelling and grammar checkers are good for a first pass, but never rely on them exclusively. In fact, these computer marvels often teach us more about the language but they are not perfect. So use them for a first pass.

    Jan Nathan, Executive Director of the Publishers Marketing Association, tells of an author/publisher who had his book professionally designed but decided to cut corners on proofreading. He relied on his computer’s spellchecker.

    After printing 5,000 copies, a colleague pointed out some misspelled words, both on the cover and inside. For example, the spellchecker did not catch the misspelling of “Foreword”. All 5,000 covers announced the “Forward” by a very prominent person. By the way, this is a very common spelling mistake in books.

    When you publish a book, it's the world's book. The world edits it. —Philip Roth, New York Times Book Review.

    Make sure your proofreader uses standard proofreading marks so the corrections will be clear to all. For a chart of proofreader’s marks, see your dictionary under (where else?) "proofreader's marks".

    Mother Nature’s Nursery Rhymes, a children’s poetry book, was done. Bill Sheehan was hand-carrying the art to his printer in Hong Kong. During the long flight, he noticed that bees and their activity were mentioned in a poem on page 15, but there were no bees in the accompanying illustration. Upon landing, he called Itoko Maeno, the illustrator, back at Advocacy Press in Santa Barbara. She suggested copying a bee from a previous page. Bill had the printer make the addition and that change saved the day.

    There is more to proofing than just punctuation and spelling. And, it is never too late to proofread—again.

    Do not skimp on proofreading. It is far more expensive to take ink off paper than to put it on. Make the book right. The more eyes the better.


    Dan Poynter does not want you to die with a book still inside you. You have the ingredients and he has your recipe. Dan has written more than 100 books since 1969 including Writing Nonfiction and The Self- Publishing Manual. For more help on book writing, see http://ParaPub.com. © 2003


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